Your Festive Guide to Sexy Christmas Gifts (2025)

There’s something about Christmas gifts that makes us think sex toys. Probably because we sell them, but you’re here too so you’re clearly up for giving your lover – or maybe even your friends – an orgasm. And why not? It’s the best feeling ever! Alternatively, you may be after something last minute for Kris Kringle or Secret Santa. But if you’re looking for a place to start, here’s our best suggestions for sexy Christmas gifts.

Sexy Christmas gifts for your lover

When you want a gift that says ‘I love you, I value you, and I want your body always’, you want a luxury sex toy. Not necessarily because it’s expensive, but because the most orgasmic toys tend to be pricey. And that’s just down to the work that goes into creating them. Thankfully sex toys aren’t status symbols just yet, so you are going to get what you pay for. Or at least you are if you shop at Wild Secrets! Here’s our top picks for toys this Christmas.

Luxury sex toy gifts for her

We Vibe Chorus Pro Couples Vibrator

 

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When it comes to enhancing your sex life, the Chorus Pro is our go to for opposite sex partners. Designed to be used during sex it offers both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, the Chorus Pro still leaves space for penetration. It’s fully crafted from body safe silicone, giving it a soft, plush and delicious touch, but the key feature? The squeezable remote. While you can use it to increase or decrease the vibes as you’d expect, it also has that squeeze function where it increases the intensity of the vibrations the harder you squeeze. We’re sure you can see where this is going, so enjoy.

If you need something a bit more portable and budget friendly, try the Sync Go. Same family, similar functionality, but at a much more affordable price.

Read more: Get to know the clitoris by Vanessa Rose.

Zalo Aya Panty Vibe

We love a multi-function queen and the Aya panty vibe is exactly that. She comes in two parts – meaning you can enjoy clitoral stimulation or dual stimulation while out and about while you or your lover controls the action via their phone or remote control. Whether it’s a discreet addition to a night out, or extra foreplay for that long, steamy night in, this is one gift that’ll make her eyes go wide when she finds it under the Christmas tree.

SVibe Gizi Duo

For lesbian, bisexual and queer women, the new Gizi Duo offers penetration and clitoral stimulation to both of you. And while it does mean you miss out on the rolling action that makes the original Gizi so good, this is one of the first toys specifically designed for same sex female couples that isn’t just another strapless strap on – although if you don’t have one of those already, maybe pick yourself up a Wild Secrets Joy.

Read more: SVibe Gizi Review by Harper Valentine.

Luxury sex toy gifts for him

Arcwave Zing Open-Ended Masturbator

The recently launched Arcwave Zing really shines as a couple’s toy. While it can be used solo, its open-ended design make it a great addition to oral sex, and it also sits nicely between your bodies during intimate times. Of course, you can also use it as a great addition to a handjob, or tie him up and settle in for a long session of edging. That’s not to take anything away from its use as a solo toy, but if you’re going to give a guy a luxury sex toy, it’s nice to give him something he’ll be able to use regardless of his relationship status. And that’s both now and in the future.

Read more: The Arcwave Zing – Reviewed, by Leo Lockwood.

Lelo Loki Wave 2

A rabbit vibe for men? Yeah kinda. The Loki Wave 2 is the choice for the power bottom – or the guy who really, really loves pegging. It’s perfectly shaped to seek out the prostate from the moment it goes in, and the dual prostate & perineal vibrations and the come-hither internal motion will leave him a babbling mess. We’ve found the Loki Wave 2 works best as a partnered sex toy though. When you hold the handle steady it makes every motion that much more intense and pleasurable for him.

CockBlock

The CockBlock is the first – and currently only – sex toy for gay, bi, and queer men who both want to top. Or where one of you can’t bottom for whatever reason. The Cockblock gives you all the intimacy of penetrative sex without needing to douche first. Great if you’re saying ‘stuff it’, and just eating whatever you want for Christmas, but don’t want to sacrifice your sex life.

Sexy Christmas gifts on a budget

If you’re wanting to gift an orgasm to your friends but you’re on a budget, this section’s for you. Whether you have to prioritise spending elsewhere, or just have a tight budget that won’t stretch to luxury sex toys for everyone on your list, that’s okay. Honestly the fact that you’re willing to gift your friends a new experience is an amazing kindness and we hope it’s received in that spirit. Here’s a few options for some budget friendly Christmas gifts that are a just as sexy as the luxury options.

Sexy Christmas gifts for anyone

Morgan Penn Limited Edition Glow Wand Massager

 

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Wand Massagers are a great option for everyone, but especially for women trying to work out what they like. With a broad head and rumbly vibes, you can use it anywhere on any body, but you can also ‘whack it on down there’ and you’ll find the clitoris if you don’t already know where it is. It’s why Sex.Life co-host and sexologist Morgan Penn chose one as her first sex toy – and we only have a few hundred left. So if you know a friend who’s been eyeing it, grab them one now before they’re all gone.

BVibe Vibrating Snug Plug

No, it doesn’t come with a built in USB of Lily Allen’s newest album, but this is essentially a luxury toy at a budget friendlier price point. The Vibrating Snug Plug is also ergonomically designed to be easy to get in and enjoy, while being heavier than your average plug so the wearer will really feel it inside them. And that’s before the vibrations are turned on! Add in the fact that it’s remote controlled and there’s a world of fun available with this otherwise modest butt plug.

Satisfyer Dazzling Crystal Glass Dildo

Glass dildos are very intense and very pleasurable. But most people won’t buy one for themselves because they don’t know how good they are. This makes them a great gift for someone who might feel a bit intimidated by a vibrator, but who deserves a super intense orgasm. We rate the Dazzling Crystal for its borosilicate – read shatter resistant – design, gorgeous aesthetic, and the way it can blend into your decor if you accidentally leave it out where people might see it.

Budget friendly sexy gifts for her

A Splash Blanket

Say goodbye to giant wet patches on your bedding and hello to the Splash Blanket! This Australian creation has gone viral for a reason, and we love that it’s soft, machine washable, and still fully waterproof. And yes, we’ve absolutely poured a jug of water onto one to test it out. It’s the very first thing we did when we got it, TBH. Don’t take our word for it though. Sexologist Melissa Vranjes took one for a spin, and her verdict? “I. Was. Not. On. Earth.”

We also have a lot of difficulty keeping these in stock, so secure yours now.

Wild Secrets Charm Heated G-Spot Vibe

The thing people forget about a G-Spot vibrator is it doesn’t *have* to be used internally. Use it on the nipples, neck or inner thigh and it’s a foreplay device. Lay the tip on your clitoris and you have a clitoral vibe. A G-spot vibe is the foreplay and the finishing move, and unlike a rabbit vibe, you’re not risking it not lining up for her and being more frustrating than it fun. This makes them a safe but still sexy Christmas gift. And the warming function that heats our Charm to just above body temp? Just the little bit extra. But also great if you know she suffers period cramps.

Read more: The best sex toys for period pain by Jay Davies.

Satisfyer Penguin – Holiday Edition

What if Pro 2 but penguin with Santa hat? If that sentence made perfect sense to you, then we have exactly what you’re looking for. The Holiday Edition of the Satisfyer Penguin has that Christmas personality, but still has the cuteness of a little animal toy. And with the same tech of the world’s best selling sex toy for women, you know the Penguin will deliver the goods if your friend doesn’t already own a Pro 2.

Budget friendly sexy gifts for him

PDX Shower Therapy Stroker

Coming in various shades of vulva as well as a non-realistic frosted version, the Shower Therapy Stroker range from PDX make a great gift – especially if you take them out of the box, add a few shower accessories, and give it like a wellness pack. Just make sure you tell them to open it and smell the scent or something so you can watch their faces. These discreet strokers are great for guys with housemates or nosy parents, and recent testing rated them highly.

Satisfyer Men Vibration Plus Masturbator

If you’re looking for a full silicone masturbator, we recommend the best-selling Vibration Plus from Satisfyer. It’s built for solo play, has app control, and is super easy to clean. It’ll also last a lot longer than a TPE stroker, without a significant increase in price. Speaking of price it costs half as much as the luxury Zing. Alternatively, if you’re looking for something with the same split design that’s also great for oral sex, check out our Wild Secrets Evoke.

Svakom Vick Remote Controlled Prostate Massager

We love a remote controlled prostate massager, and the Svakom Vick is one of the most affordable full silicone options available right now. The rotating arm means he’ll be able to get the perfect fit for his body, making it a great gift. It’s also stylish, beautifully crafted and will look expensive when they unwrap it on Christmas day. If you need something a bit more affordable, and don’t mind missing out on the remote control and rotating arm, check out the Adam and Eve Triple Probe instead.

Budget friendly Kinky Christmas Gifts

This section is for gift ideas for the kinkster in your life. We know a lot of kinky gifts are used for Kris Kringle – and if you’re looking for those suggestions they’re in the next section.

Whipsmart Blue Diamond Hogtie Restraints

These stylish restraints are great for beginner and intermediate kinksters. Beginners get 4 cuffs – so two sets – to start their collection, as well as the fifth hogtie piece. Intermediate users get a dedicated piece of gear that makes achieving a hogtie easier without a lot of rope, knots and time. So kinky fantasy unlocked. If you just want one set of cuffs they are available separately, but it’s more economical to get them in the hogtie set.

Adam and Eve Mahogany Desires Bondage Set

If you know your friend is kink curious and doesn’t have any gear, you could just… get them a set. And for a 10 piece leather set with gold accents, the Mahogany Desires set is a steal right now. It’s stylish, classy, contains everything you need to get started, and comes with a zip up storage case to keep everything tucked away neatly when not in use.

Funny Kris Kringle Gifts

The best funny Kris Kringle gifts are like the best jokes – a benign transgression. You have to make the judgement yourself of what that means in your workplace (or family), but here’s some new suggestions we didn’t include in our Black Friday buying guide.

NS Novelties Rear Assets Rose Butt Plug

It’s a gold butt plug with a rose base. Cute, floral, and alluding to anal sex? Perfect for a Kris Kringle. We don’t have many left, but you could also consider the Rear Assets Petite Jewelled Butt Plug for a smaller – and cheaper – alternative.

Pick a Pecker Truth or Dare – X rated edition

Look, it’s truth or dare, but you can blame the game for making it sexy. And it’s just the right mix of innuendo and opt in fun that suggests the person receiving the gift is going to get lucky that’ll make it work in an office setting. And there’s also a kink edition if you think that’s more appropriate.

Pipedream Silicone Crop

Everyone knows a crop is for BDSM and hitting people playfully – and within the boundaries of pre-negotiated consent. This silicone crop is a nod to the tamer element of the kinky play – and one that doesn’t require anyone to take their clothes off. Plus it really works if they want to use it for its sexier purpose.

Le Wand Microwand

If you want something less funny and more amazing we’ve got you. For those who don’t already know, Le Wand produce some of the best, most luxurious, high quality wand massagers. And they’re priced accordingly. So being able to get a mini wand for under $50 makes this a really great gift. It might be a bit above your usual Kris Kringle price point, but if you really want to give something high quality but still affordable, this is one you might want to try. Alternatively, if you want to lean into the cute factor, maybe consider this mini unicorn wand from Bang.

That’s it from us here at Wild Secrets – so Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and however you choose to celebrate (or not celebrate) at this time of year, we hope you’re surrounded by people you love and care about.